Work-life balance should be a basic expectation, but in Silicon Valley, it often feels like a luxury. The latest example? A viral post from an xAI employee bragging about working 36 hours non-stop, with no rest and no regrets.
Work-life balance pushed aside at xAI

Parsa Tajik, a staffer at xAI, claimed to have pulled off a 36-hour shift straight through. No naps. No pause. Just work. He described the experience as nearly fatal but somehow “super-energizing.” Most people would call that a meltdown waiting to happen. Yet in this corner of tech, it gets applause.
The situation drew a dry reply from Ayush Jaiswal, a former growth lead at ScaleAI. He joked that work-life balance is something he “highly recommends to competitors.” Elon Musk, who owns xAI, reacted with a single laughing emoji summing up how seriously he takes the whole conversation.
Silicon Valley’s obsession isn’t new
Tech giants have long glorified long hours. Musk himself has made a point of working 80-hour weeks and once claimed he survived a 120-hour workweek. Meanwhile, employees at his companies are often expected to match that energy or find the door.
At Twitter (now X), many staff were fired after refusing to work 60-hour weeks. For people like Musk, that’s not cruelty, it’s efficiency. But not everyone shares that mindset.
Work-life balance remains elusive
The idea of “balance” keeps slipping further out of reach in high-stakes tech environments. It’s not because people don’t want it. In fact, countless surveys show that employees perform better when they have time to recharge. Still, many companies treat that data like a bad joke.
So why is extreme hustle still the default? The answer lies in the brutal competition that defines Silicon Valley. The region is locked in a constant sprint, and companies often sacrifice well-being in the name of speed.
Here are a few factors that keep the cycle going:
- CEO worship and toxic productivity culture
- Investor pressure for rapid scaling
- Peer one-upmanship disguised as ambition
- Social media glorification of burnout
Work-life balance deserves better than a punchline
Some leaders still believe that running employees into the ground is a badge of honor. But the truth is, burnout doesn’t build innovation, it breaks it. The applause for 36-hour work binges says more about Silicon Valley’s insecurity than its success.
Progress shouldn’t cost your pulse. And no amount of laughing emojis can hide the fact that something’s deeply wrong.

